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Love In Bloom

B. loves daffodils and knew I did, too. In spring he’d occasionally surprise me with a bouquet of daffs, or perhaps a single, cheery bloom. The gesture always thrilled me, endeared me to him. 

I made and sent him this electronic Valentine’s Day card not long ago. At least I was true to my feelings for him. I loved him. I thought he loved me, too.

No doubt he’s sharing daffs with his new woman. For us, the bloom is off the “rose.”

Categories: Affair Affairs Break-ups Infidelity Memories Relationships Valentine's Day

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Exit 4A

A former mistress (26 years, on-and-off) describes the good, the bad, and the ugly of her long-term affair. Conclusion: Affairs aren't necessarily destructive if kept in the correct perspective. Our experience enhanced BOTH our marriages.

That is, until his marriage ended and we began to love each other. When the affair morphed into a relationship, well, that's when it stopped being fun for me.

For 26 yrs we luxuriated in implicit Trust. When B. cheated on ME, it was the first time another person came into our relationship besides our respective spouses.

We have now irrevocably split.

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