Must be nice to have a “Sugar Daddy.” She breaks the law (repeatedly) and he pays the bill.
Here he is paying for her most recent transgression, driving on a suspended license owing to a previous DUI:
QUESTION: Why do men stay with women who use/abuse them? I’ll tell you why: because they’re unable/unwilling/scared to be by themselves. Boy Toy once told me he wants Kooky Girl to feed him, fuck him and friend him. And now does she not only owe him a large flat-screen HDTV:
She owes him at least $500 for paying off her most recent court fine. She is indebted to him, has been living with him rent-free since last year, and yet he keeps accepting her abusive nature.
Those kinds of guys are either crazy, desperate or blind…….perhaps all three.
Why does he stay? Is love really that blind?
A former mistress (26 years, on-and-off) describes the good, the bad, and the ugly of her long-term affair. Conclusion: Affairs aren't necessarily destructive if kept in the correct perspective. Our experience enhanced BOTH our marriages.
That is, until his marriage ended and we began to love each other. When the affair morphed into a relationship, well, that's when it stopped being fun for me. We have now irrevocably split.
Lately I've been writing about the man who took his place in the "off" years of that 26-year-long affair. He was a dynamic sexual partner but we, too, now have irrevocably split.
These are our stories.